How summer camp can help kids grow
In college I spent many summers teaching kids kayaking and rock climbing. It was a wonderful experience where I learned a lot about kids and the power of nature to heal and help children grow. With kids having more and more screen time, and less and less out-door time it’s easy to forget about the benefits of kids being outside. There’s a growing body of research about the benefits of children playing outside in nature. Children who don’t go outdoors are at higher risks for anxiety, depression, and attention deficit problems (Louv, 2005). Summer camp is a wonderful way for kids to spend time outside in nature being playful and adventurous. Here are five reasons why kids being outside, spending time at camp is good for parents, and helps kids grow.
5 ways Camp helps kids grow
Teaching social skills
Summer camp can be a great place for children who are struggling with making friends, communicating their ideas, asking for help, and other social skills. Through play and structured activities, they’ll be interacting with peers their age and work on making friends in a supportive and safe environment. They’ll spends lots of time with peers and have plenty of chances to practicing being a good friend or helping others.
Teaching teamwork
Children have to share space with other kids at camp; they’ll divvy up cabin tasks through compromise and negotiation. They’ll work towards common goals and accomplish things as a member of a team. They’ll win or lose together in a game of capture the flag. At times they’ll be leaders and learn assertiveness skills, and other times they’ll learn the importance of being a team member. Knowing how to function as a part of team is an invaluable skill for kids to have as they move on to join sports team, participate in theater or eventually get jobs.
Build self-esteem in children with depression
Camp provides supportive opportunities for children to be appropriately challenged and experience success. Kids who struggle with depression may have feelings of worthlessness, low self-esteem and thoughts of not-being “good enough.” The rock wall at camp may seem like a fun obstacle, but for some children it can be experience where they did something they didn’t think they could do, where they learned they are stronger, and braver than they ever imagined.
Healthy risk-taking for children with anxiety
Evaluating risk is a very important skill for children to learn. Overly anxious children may be reluctant to take safe risks. At camp they’ll be challenged to confront fears and anxiety. They’ll learn that it’s safe to separate from family and that they can be independent. Camp can help kids learn to challenge themselves, and learn when it’s the right time to sit something out.
Everyone wins when kids go to camp
Ever wonder why passengers on airplanes are told to help themselves first when the oxygen masks drop down? Parents need to take care of themselves to take good care of kids. When kids and their parents have healthy breaks (called respite) they enjoy each other’s company more, and are able to have quality time together. Remember, when children go to camp they’re not just playing kickball or kayaking. They’re being taught skills that help them in life. Also it provides parents an opportunity to recharge their batteries and take care of themselves. Everyone wins when kids go to camp
Reference:
Louv, R. (2005). Last child in the woods: Saving our children from nature-deficit disorder. Chapel Hill, NC: Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill.
Jeff LaPonsie LMSW
Jeff LaPonsie is a clinical social worker at Kalamazoo Child and Family Counseling, PLLC. He provides counseling to children and families in the Kalamazoo, Portage, and South West Michigan area. He is passionate about helping challenging children and frustrated parents. Jeff has over seven years of experience working with at risk youth. His clinical expertise includes working with children with behavioral, anxiety, attachment and trauma related disorders.
